Being irresponsible at times is as important as being responsible if we do not want the weight of the world bearing on our shoulders to completely wear us down.
Let's be informedly irresponsible and allow ourselves some well earned guilt free rest!
6 months ago·
5 months ago·
Simon DamstraAwareness based coach
Hi Ronaldas, maybe calling it informed irresponsibility already helps. What I mean is that if we are only responsible all the time and never let loose, we create a lot of pressure in our system. For people that always put responsibility on their shoulders, the only way to relax is to allow themselves is not to 'try to relax' but to allow themselves to be informedly irresponsible or not responsible at that point in time. It is really about allowed ourselves guilt free rest instead of trying to rest and not succeeding. Does this make sense?
5 months ago·
In my work of giving people access to their inner resources, I found that words have a distinct quality of experience they illicit when connected with.
Qualities of experience are the qualities we ascribe to what we are experiencing at a moment.
So for example, feeling expansive, flowy, full, empty, loved, welcome, productive, these are qualities of experience.
Some people say that words are neutral, and we humans give charge to them, either positive or negative. While I agree we can project positive and/or negative qualities on a word, my sense is that they do seem to have their own experiential qualities to them already, possibly transmitted from the noosphere. Then they transmit what we as a collective human race project onto these words.
They seem to elicit more homogeneous/universal qualities of experience in different individuals. That is what we have experienced in the collective I play with.
What I find remarkable is the quality of 'Work'.
'Work' is actually a core inner quality next to for example Love, Power, Affect and Intellect.
It is not something to aim to transcend, aiming to not work anymore. You can if you want to, but 'work' is that quality that has us actually make the effort to make a decision, to consciously choose our values and live by them. 'work' is that quality of not going with every direction of the wind, and instead following our path purposefully and intentionally.
Even if we may never need to work again in a near future scenario, I don't think work is going anywhere. Work is virtuous. If we want to feel we keep on growing as individuals work as we know it may change, but work itself isn't going away.
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It is necessary to be okay with not knowing to find inner peace. As long as we have to know there is always something to think painfully about.
Benedetta MarchiorelloViolin player
I do have yes, some imaginary friends like the friends that I used to hang out with when I used to live in London and Bologna
I'm a fractal non-local hologram encompassing the whole universe. Yaaaay! 😄
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