Interested in psychology, self-help, counselling and psychotherapy. Informal studies in Academy of Psychology (2y), Institute of Individual Psychology (4y), Vilnius Gestalt institute (2y). Practicing mindfulness/meditation daily for 5 years.
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How to be a good listener?
- Ask: "How do you feel about that?"
- Accept that person’s feelings and do not try to change them.
- Instead of saying "I understand you, I was in a similar situation ...", say "I hear you", "I'm with you."
- Ask questions instead of giving advice.
- Do not rush to give advice if a talker didn’t ask for that.
- Be patient instead of interrupting.
- Do not shift the topic and do not rush to share your experiences.