Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
"I don't know where to start" is an all time most popular first sentence that I hear as psychologist. And I definitely don't want to reprehend it. Actually, I would like to praise everyone who starts out like this, and praise twice. First of all for coming in general. To reach out for help even before it is crystal clear to yourself what exactly is the issue, is a great strategy. Together we will define it much faster. When you are telling your story somebody else, not yourself - the sentences and meanings are aligned much better. It happens quite often that people say "now that I am saying it out loud, I seem to understand where is the issue". And this is how it always works - thoughts in your mind are much fuzzier and stickier than oral or written language. We all are of all kinds, but so many of our problems are so similar. No, I don't read minds, but I can quite decently fill in gaps in your thoughts and in your words. Only because of that, because there are patterns. They are different for different generations, different nationalities, different experiences - but they still are visible. Also, there are patterns in how our mind works - principles of memory, attention, habits, decisions and other super interesting things are universal. Because of all of this - we will figure it out together much faster. I praise you for the second time for choosing a great, open and unshielded way to admit that you do not know. This requires courage, and this courage gives me hope - if you can live with this discomfort without hiding, then you can definitely live with other discomforts that will inevitably happen while looking for the roots of your difficulties and healing them. I sincerely admire every one of you who take this step. It is almost to the darkness and unknown - and you still do it. Additional praise goes to all of you who bring a clearly formulated difficulty. At times a surprisingly well defined, sometimes it only seems so, with layers and layers below. But whatever is your first sentence, we will figure it out regardless of the starting position or approach, we will get together to your aim and your goals. O papildomai noriu pagirti ir tuos, kurie ateina su aiškiai suformuluotu sunkumu. Kartais stebėtinai tiksliu, kartais taip tik atrodo, o po juo yra kiti sluoksniai. Tačiau visais, visiškai visais atvejais, pradėjus kalbėtis nuo bet kurios pusės ar briaunos, vis tiek prieisim prie tikslo ir uždavinio. Don't know where to start? Great. Let's talk about it :) My name is Monika, I am health and nutrition psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about beh Photo: Mammiya from Pixabay #spoonfulofreason #psychology #wheretostart #dontknow
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Minimalism is a way of life focused on owning as few things as possible (or only as many as necessary). Besides obvious financial or time-saved-for-tidying advantages, switching to minimalism as minimalism itself has noticeable psychological benefits. Participants in this qualitative study were practitioners of minimalism. They stated that they enjoy an improved wellbeing due to increased autonomy, competence, mental space, awareness and positive emotions. Previous research also identifies themes of simplicity, pro-ecological behaviors and control on materialism. How many thing s do you own that you do not really need? And how about that mental space?... My name is Monika, I am health and nutrition psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, teach and provide psychological counselling. Book my talk to discuss minimalism and psychology! Article: https://roomtothink.net/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Lloyd_et_al-2020-International_Journal_of_Applied_Positive_Psychology-2.pdf Photo: Sofie Zbořilová from Pixabay #spoonfulofreason #psychology #minimalism #order #ecology #mentalspace
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Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
Does minimalism, besides being nice source of content for social media, have any other benefits, for example, psychological? Apparently, it does. The research outlines four behaviors related to minimalism: clutter removal, cautious shopping, longevity (of the purchased items, I assume) and self-sufficiency. The research also found that minimalism significantly increases feeling of flourishing (nice choice of the term!) and alleviates depression. 👆 I _always_ said, that tidying is a great form of meditation, that it is also a series of calm, repetitive motions (and leads to relaxation), besides, the result is always visually pleasing! My name is Monika, I am health and nutrition psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, teach and provide psychological counselling. Book my talk to know more about psychology of cleaning! Study: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2352550921000397 Photo: Scott Webb from Pixabay #spoonfulofreason #psychology #minimalism #tidying #flourishing #depression

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