Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
99: psychology and mythology (2 of 4) Do you go to the psychotherapy? No, because "your head is fine"? No, because "add-your-own-reason-here"? Well. You are not alone. The most popular myths about the psychotherapy, and, of course, what actually happens. 🤔 “Therapist will confirm what I am afraid of the most” 🧠 Even if it may sound a bit akward, but most people are convinced that there is something fundamentally wrong with them and that they are the only ones in the world with these difficulties. So they avoid visiting the psychotherapist as if afraid to hear the fatal diagnosis. "better to not know" they think. Actually most people come to the therapist with rather similar stories and difficulties, and also quite manageable. We all are unique and different, we live our own individual lives, so we all have out own ways of dealing with difficulties that we face. The fact that we don't know how to deal with something is always about the fact that we have not learnt it _yet_, and the ways we already know might not be useful anymore, like a small tricycle to the adult. Sometimes it is enough to look at ourselves from perspective, as if in the mirror (or in the objective reflection from the psychotherapist) to understand that we do not have difficulty to ride a tiny tricycle, we simply grew up. Tricycle is tricycle, and not your curse or your enemy. 🤔 “Psychotherapy is for the people who have problems, not for the people who want to improve” 🧠 This myth is applicable not only for the psychotherapists. We also take care of our physical health with more zeal when something hurts - and decide to skip prevention, exercise, quality sleep and healthy nutrition. Good news that even for a completely healthy person - physically or mentally - psychologist may be as useful as for the ill person or person with difficulties. Every psychologist first of all needs to become a client himself or herself first of all, to be able to look at their own issues and to obtain skills to reflect issues of another person correctly, to find out where their "mirror has a crack" - or what issue he or she has. We all have difficulties, this is completely normal. But if we experience our difficulties mindfully, do not hide from them, do not hide them from others - then those difficulties lose their power and become only a color of the personality, not the secret weapon, pointing at others or ourselves. Therapist may help us find the strong traits, growth potential, new talents and hobbies, new professions, help to grow the relationships with the family and the relatives - is it really less valuable than dealing with difficulties? It is a long post, but hopefully useful, two more parts to come. Wishing you a fresh look at psychotherapy, with no judgement and plenty of curiosity 🙂 My name is Monika, I am psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, counsel and teach. Book my counselling session here: https://fb.com/book/saukstasproto/ ||| Become Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/saukstasproto ---------------------------------------------------------------- Free extrapolation based on this: https://www.goodtherapy.org/therapy-myths-and-facts.html Photo: Gerd Altmann from Pixabay #spoonfulofreason #psychology #therapy #why

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Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
Podcast I would like to recommend - "Infinite Monkey Cage". While it covers a very wide range of topics, today I enjoyed "Science of Dreaming", and there is more on human mind and psychology related subjects. It is difficult to discuss such a subjective field with so much reliance on memory and personal interpretation, but these guys do it brilliantly. Podcast hosts - Brian Cox and Robin Ince with a panel of cool guests for each episode. Episode on dreaming: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0008wtj My name is Monika, I am psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, counsel and teach.proto #spoonfulofreason #psychology #recommendations #podcast #infinitemonkeycage
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Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
Book that I would like to recommend this week is in Lithuanian, Danutė Gailienė "Ką jie mums padarė". I am not sure if an English version exists, but it definitely should. It is not only about the psychology of the personal trauma, but also about what happens to the whole nation during wars, repressions and exile. Not only what happens in general, but also what did happen to our parents and grandparents and what does it mean to us and our children. A difficult read, excellent writing style and an important piece of knowledge. My name is Monika, I am psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, counsel and teach. Book my talk to know more. #spoonfulofreason #psychology #recommendation #book
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Monika Kuzminskaitė on PsychologyHealth psychologist, with special love for food and eating mattersSome time ago
What if... another one of the great futuristic projections, this time on dementia. Right now possibility to grow into bright and peaceful old age - instead of anxious, puzzling and psychologically insecure old age (or having a dementia) - awaits one in ten 65 year old people. In Japan, with more than 70 000 centenarians, about 4 percent or 5 million people are diagnosed with dementia. Similar future awaits all developed and aging societies. The article shares an expectation that a new simple blood test will allow to identify those at higher risk of developing Alzheimer's disease with very high confidence - and to start an early prevention program of this disease (or a whole spectrum of related diseases, as authors speculate). Yet, the recommendations for efficient prevention seem to make sense even now, and for anyone of any age: - regular physical activity - healthy and sensible eating - drinking little alcohol - maintaining low blood pressure - being active mentally, constant learning - active social life I believe such future would be brighter not only because we would have more and better medications for lonely older people with multiple diseases. Or perhaps completely not because of that. Article: https://www.economist.com/what-if/2021/07/03/what-if-dementia-was-preventable-and-treatable My name is Monika, I am health and nutrition psychologist. I help to deal with daily and difficult questions about behavior, thinking, emotions. I write, teach and provide psychological counselling. Book mytalk to know more! #spoonfulofreason #psychology #future #futurology #dementia #oldage
What if dementia was preventable and treatable?
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