I was born in the days when there was no internet, mobile, smart phones. In those days, there were landline phones and not everyone had them. To find friends, we had to go to the yard and make friends. We saw each other. We saw how we looked, heard how we talked. We were real because we expressed our thoughts. We made efforts.
Nowadays, mainly human communication takes place through messages, social networks. And that takes them away from their true self, because often people mean not their thoughts, but strangers by copying the quotes and thoughts of strangers. Because it's simple. The worst thing is that such actions reduce their own self-worth, as they become dependent on other people's likes and views.
Know that if you care about other people's likes, repost, reviews, this is a signal that you have low self-esteem. The more confident you are, more you trust yourself, the less you care about what others think of you.
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Emotional excitement is the main characteristic that encourages a person to change something in his life. The desire to have something does not encourage a person to act. Only emotional excitement causes us to get out of bed and do something. If you want to understand why you are not motivated to reach your goal, see if that goal affects you emotionally. Are your heart starts beating harder when you think about your goal/dream, or goose skin appears on your skin? If not, then this is not the goal you need to pursue. Find another one that lift you up.
When you are focused on your goal, your mind begins to move along the path of its realization. Suddenly, you have different ideas, you get to know the people you need, circumstances themselves develop in such a way that everything works out for you, in problems you see opportunities and inside you you feel enthusiasm.
Therefore, you always need to start with clearly formulated goals. What do you want? How would you like to see your life? How good should it be? What would you like to change dramatically? Focus on opportunities, not problems. You focus on the result, on what you want to achieve. This is the most basic thing. This is where it all starts.