Austėja Šim on Let's talk LOVE & SELF-LOVEAlchemist | Survivor | Content Creator | Tarot Reader | Solo TravelerSome time ago
"elkis su kitais taip, kaip norėtum, kad elgtųsi su tavimi" yra tie žodžiai, tas motto, tas patarimas, kurį dauguma girdėjom augdami ir jau užaugę, bet tik neseniai supratau, kokia žalinga dauguma atvejų yra ši mintis yra gražu elgtis su kitais žmonėmis gražiai. iš geros širdies, iš nuoširdaus noro, iš elementarios pagarbos žmogui; bet elgtis su kitais taip, kaip patys norim, kad su mumis elgtųsi, greičiau nuveda prie neišpildytų lūkesčių, nuoskaudų, negebėjimo įsiklausyti ir jausmo, lyg kitas žmogus mums skolingas, nes taigi mes jam buvom tokie geri!! tik tiek, kad tą gerumą ir gražų elgesį kiekvienas suprantam ir traktuojam skirtingai. ir taip atsiranda mergaitės, kurios mano, kad duoda per daug, nors duoda tai, kas kitam nereikalinga ir berniukai, kurie kartoja 'nice guys finish last' ir visas moteris be išimties vadina egoistėm ir barakudom ir tokie gilūs frazių įsisavinimai be kritinio mąstymo padaro mus zombiukais, kurie sugeba žiūrėti, bet nemato, kurie geba klausyti, bet negirdi. man atrodo, sveikiau atvirai komunikuoti savo poreikius žmogui ir atvirai išklausyti tai, ko jam reikia, tai, kas jį nuramina, tai, kas jam malonu, o ne kultivuoti iliuziją, kad visi veikiam vienodai kartais ir pati pagaunu save taip darančią ir stengiuosi to nusipurtyti. nes jeigu man liūdint padeda apkabinimas, kitam reikia vienatvės, ir jeigu nesugebam įsiklausyti ir elgiamės taip, kaip norim, kad su mumis elgtųsi, netyčia galim padaryti daugiau žalos nei gero norėčiau, kad visi išmoktume su savimi elgtis taip, kaip norėtume, kad su mumis elgtųsi, o su kitais elgtis taip, kaip jiems yra gera ir malonu. išgirsti save ir išgirsti kitą ❤️✨
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Manpreet Kaur on Love and RelationshipsAd maker and a pretty good listenerSome time ago
What do you think of marrying someone from a different religion? A) Its tough. They will never understand my beliefs and values and the importance those set of beliefs hold in my life B) Its definitely possible so long as there is tolerance, acceptance and understanding on each other's set of beliefs and values I personally believe its possible. What are your thoughts? Have you experienced dating / are dating someone from a different religion?

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Manpreet KaurAd maker and a pretty good listener
There is no specific desire to be with someone of a different religion. It just opens the dating pool to other people besides the ones in your religion and in Malaysia, a country of multicultures, its pretty normal. We have a lot of mixed marriages here between different races and its possible to make work as long as there is mutual understanding, respect and alignment between the couple
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Marija Mireckaitė on Let's talk QoorioPhotographer. Curious person.Some time ago
Working at Qoorio since August has been one of the most enriching experiences of my life. 🌞 I love being a part of this team, working with different projects, constantly learning new things... But that's not all. 🌞 I just believe in Qoorio with every cell in my body. Every meeting that I had personally with other people using this platform has been very impactful to me. Talking to people, conversing about different topics always makes me believe in this idea even more - we learn from people, we learn from eachother. 🌞 I encourage you to meet atleast one person outside of your social circle atleast once a month. Believe me, magic will happen. 🌞 Below, you'll see our CEOs Justas' Janauskas' profile and a part of his bio where he talks about Qoorio. And who can better pitch an idea than the co-founder himself :)

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so happy to meet you!
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Austėja Šim on Let's talk TOXIC RELATIONSHIPSAlchemist | Survivor | Content Creator | Tarot Reader | Solo TravelerSome time ago
A month ago, I shared my first video on abusive relationships on YouTube. After nearly a year of contemplating and planning, I gathered the courage to speak out about domestic violence, which is, despite being painfully important, a rarely discussed and highly stigmatized topic in Lithuania. I was absolutely overwhelmed with the response and didn't even expect that people would begin sharing their experiences, too, whether in the comment section or private messages, which made me realize that this is important not only to me but also on a larger scale. I am planning to post more videos, digging deeper into the topic of toxic/abusive/narcissistic relationships - hopefully starting October I will be able to do it more regularly. I intentionally chose to make these videos in my native language since there's barely any information on these topics in Lithuanian, but I also thought Qoorio would be a very suitable place to share my findings, videos, insights or knowledge in English. :) Anyway, I kindly invite you to spare 20 minutes of your day to watch this video, and, if you feel like someone might benefit from watching it, don't be shy and share it! And of course, if you find it useful, don't forget to like and subscribe ☺️ Much love❤️ https://youtu.be/hU1Fb7m0EBw
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Austėja ŠimAlchemist | Survivor | Content Creator | Tarot Reader | Solo Traveler
thank you for such kindness and honesty!! I can only hope things will eventually change, more voices will be heard and less people will endure such treatment. Every bit of encouragement goes a long way, thank you once again!!❤️
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