We have many choice, the way we make people feel, will determine, they stay with us, or not.
“We must not allow other people’s perceptions to define us.” Virginia Satir
Today is my last 2 days working part-time Admim, after 1 month working there. I had a taste of what is being in a low income group. Well for what I can see the respect is not there, people are pushy, what to get things done fast, without thinking of the current work load I'm having, no proper office, worked in a not conducive environment.
Found that people are taking advantage of my ability and using me with per hour rate of RM8 daily for 5 hours, tasks include HR, Accounts, IT, and Admin.
Felt hopeless, next week I'll be joining A hotel IT job, for temporary 2 months, as the IT Manager there was hospitalized, which the pay is much higher.
So be smart to leave, if you find yourself un appreciated, the problem is that I'm Tight up with debts, and no savings, and rely on my wife. Lucky she is supportive. When I was young, I never think of savings and living from pay check, to pay check.
I'm sharing I'm story here, in hope that you not do the same mistake like me. When I was young, I have a caring character, for others, which at times, make myself suffer for my friends just to make them happy.
You'll will see, when you are blinded with love a person, you will feel obligated to provide the best things can offer to your love ones.
I'm not like that now, just let things let it be, and let time heals itself. Till my next insight, have a productive day ahead.