Andreea Dudau on RelationshipsENFP entrepreneurSome time ago
“If he wanted, he would’ve!” So many times I have heard this from friends who have been hurt by their partners and expected more from them or even to just reciprocate their feelings and give them the love they deserve. But it is not always this easy and simplistic. Asking someone for affection or attention and them not giving it to you is not always because they do not care. Yes, you heard that right. Does he spend time with you but is never able to fully commit or never ready to make the next step? Then I repeat it may not be because he doesn’t care. Someone who is scarred or broken inside is not always a devil or a cold hearted snake. It might be someone who strongly wants to let people in and have someone to love them and build a long term relationship but is NOT ABLE TO. Like someone who has a broken leg, they are just not able to walk or run, not that they don’t want to. They are just broken. The way to solve this problem is to realise what you need and want and to let go of someone who might hurt you, voluntarily or not.

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Anatol KleinBowmaster and writer
I agree, but you should find closure before you let go of them.
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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
It takes time to get to know each other we have to be discipline,responsible, committed in order for the relationship to work. Be smart enough to know his/her intension, and not to be used, people changes when they have shifted their goals in life, They will be outside influence that brings you down or give negative input, such as family and friends, only you know what is good for you. Don't forget your pass experience , and be brave to start over, life is to short to be sad, have confidence, experience, be independent, have good qualities, and good income, and the right person will comes to your life. Look for a good heart ❤, not looks, because pretty face, will be old one day, but not the heart, It's good to start young, if you are old, you tend to be forget full, and takes things for granted, and less energy. Be smart, not to commit big steps, and make sure your name is in the deed, house or car. When you marry, you not only marry him, you'll marry his family as well, so get to know them also.
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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
Some advice on the broken leg. I got into accident some 15 years back. I got into accident while I was crossing the road. I was in the hospital for a week, after operation, I was in the room thinking what should I do, when now I can't walk, why I didn't appreciate what I have, and like to compare. My leg was broken, but not in my mind, in my mind I still can walk, and determine to get back up again. With the support of my friends and some christian brothers and sister have visited and pray for me, I was unable to walk about 3 month, and I was nearly want to use the wheelchair. On the 4th month my mental was nearly deplited, and wanted to give up. I tried walking, and now I'm able to. It is not easy, but if you put your mind and soul in to what you do, sure it is worth fighting for, like the Mulan Song, from Disney. Be strong to stand alone, may be peace in your heart ❤ . God bless you.
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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
Just watch this in Netflix, hope this will give you inspiration to carry on life.
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Andreea Dudau on RelationshipsENFP entrepreneurSome time ago
What is your attachment style? Secure attachment: you’re mostly comfortable opening up and getting close to people. You’re also OK on your own and don’t feel like you need to be with someone just to be with them. Anxious attachment: you’re often worried about your relationship and seek reassurance and affection to counter that worry. You’ve probably found yourself in at least a few toxic relationships and even one sided ones. Avoidant: getting close to people either freaks you out or causes you to push them away somehow. Relationships are good for a while, but you tend to lose interest easily. Anxious-avoidant: you seek out love and affection only to push it away once you get it. You oscillate between being alone and miserable to being in toxic/abusive relationships.

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Andrew Lim Mao TungWindows System Admin with a passion to motivate and likes Technology.
Wow, so many attachment, mine in life Secure, in work Anxious & avoidant, I try not to close to them, feae thar they will take advantage of my kindness. To do them a favor.
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Andreea Dudau on RelationshipsENFP entrepreneurSome time ago
Having boundaries will probably not make you more desirable but imagine two theme parks. One is free and one you have to pay to enter, where do you think people will go? The fact that the free theme park has more visitors it does not mean it is of better quality. It just means it’s more accessible.🤷🏻‍♀️

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Marijus KrasnickasValue Creator Through Unity. Founder of UNO Parks. Your Gold Fish.
People like free.
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Manpreet Kaur on Love and RelationshipsAd maker and a pretty good listenerSome time ago
What do you think of marrying someone from a different religion? A) Its tough. They will never understand my beliefs and values and the importance those set of beliefs hold in my life B) Its definitely possible so long as there is tolerance, acceptance and understanding on each other's set of beliefs and values I personally believe its possible. What are your thoughts? Have you experienced dating / are dating someone from a different religion?

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Manpreet KaurAd maker and a pretty good listener
There is no specific desire to be with someone of a different religion. It just opens the dating pool to other people besides the ones in your religion and in Malaysia, a country of multicultures, its pretty normal. We have a lot of mixed marriages here between different races and its possible to make work as long as there is mutual understanding, respect and alignment between the couple
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